In a powerful and deeply personal moment, legendary actor Robert De Niro has spoken publicly for the first time about his child coming out as transgender. Known for his long and distinguished career in film, De Niro has now joined a growing number of public figures who are using their platform to support LGBTQ+ family members — and his words have struck a chord across generations.
The actor, 80, expressed nothing but unconditional love and support for his daughter, Airyn De Niro, who recently came out as a transgender woman. “I loved and supported Aaron as my son, and now I love and support Airyn as my daughter,” De Niro said in a recent interview. “I don’t know what the big deal is.”
His candid and heartfelt statement came shortly after Airyn herself gave an in-depth interview about her transition and her life journey so far. At 29, Airyn is stepping into the public eye with grace, courage, and a strong sense of purpose. In her interview, she shared details about the emotional and physical aspects of her transition, including beginning hormone therapy in late 2024. She also spoke openly about her struggles with body dysmorphia and her desire to serve as a role model for other Black, queer, and plus-size trans women — a group often underrepresented in media and advocacy work.
Born in 1995 alongside her twin brother Julian, Airyn is the daughter of Robert De Niro and actress Toukie Smith. Despite being the child of two prominent figures, Airyn was largely kept out of the spotlight during her youth — a decision she now appreciates. She credits her parents, especially her mother, for raising her with strength, compassion, and discretion.
Reflecting on her mother’s influence, Airyn described her as “a model of womanhood,” praising the way she carried herself and communicated both in private and in public. This foundation helped Airyn develop her own sense of identity and pride, and she has said that transitioning has allowed her to finally live in alignment with her true self.
In addition to sharing her personal journey, Airyn revealed that she is currently studying to become a mental health counselor. She hopes to one day open a practice specifically designed to support queer people of color and others navigating gender identity and social acceptance. Her dream is not only to provide care but also to foster community and healing for those who often face marginalization.
The response to Airyn’s announcement has been overwhelmingly positive. She received words of encouragement from across social media, including from prominent LGBTQ+ advocates like actress Laverne Cox — whom Airyn had cited as one of her inspirations. Airyn acknowledged the public support with a sense of gratitude and humility, noting that she hadn’t expected the attention but was thankful for the kindness shown to her.
For Robert De Niro, the focus is squarely on being a loving father. His direct, no-nonsense support serves as a reminder that acceptance doesn’t require complex language or explanation — just love, respect, and the willingness to stand by family. His attitude resonates especially with older generations, many of whom may be navigating similar experiences with their own children or grandchildren. By speaking out so simply and sincerely, De Niro is helping to shift cultural conversations around gender identity, family, and what it means to truly support one another.
His public support adds to a growing number of celebrities who have embraced their transgender children with pride. These moments, when shared widely, help normalize transgender identities and encourage acceptance across diverse communities — especially among those who may be unfamiliar or uncertain about what it means to transition.
As we continue moving toward a more inclusive society, stories like Airyn’s — and the love and support from parents like Robert De Niro — serve as powerful reminders that every person deserves to live authentically and be celebrated for who they are.